HUGE MISTAKES WOMEN MAKE THAT PULL MEN AWAY – HOW TO ATTRACT THE RIGHT MAN AND MAKE HIM STAY FOREVER

So you met a man and everything was going great between the two of you. Or so you thought.

Then, quick as lightning, he was out the door.

When it comes to relationships, women and men have unique perspectives. From first date etiquette to when to sleep with their partner, the outlooks are diverse.

However, when a man pulls away from the woman he’s seeing it’s usually for a specific reason and in this article, we are focused on throwing light on some of the mistakes women fall prey too, mostly subconsciously and without noticing but ruining their chance at long lasting love and future marriage success.

Below are three HUGE mistakes women make that push men away.

· Women are clingy.

If there’s one thing that’ll send any man running then it’s a clingy woman.

Sure, it’s nice to be affectionate and show him that he’s on your mind, but when you make him your be and end all, he’ll start to feel smothered. When this happens he’ll try to regain his independence by pulling away.

What’s worse is when you make it known that you’re falling for him, too quickly. Since men are looking for fun in the beginning of a relationship, letting him know that you’re already planning your future together will scare him away. Instead of showing your emotions too soon, it’s crucial that you remain calm, cool and collected.

Remember, if a man senses that a woman wants more from him and the relationship than he’s prepared to give, he will pull away.

· Insecurity

Studies have shown that 97% of women are unhappy with their bodies at least once a day.

However, when it comes to relationships showing your insecurities is never a good idea. Sure, it’s nice to be comfortable enough to talk about your gym routine or the healthy eating kick you’re on with your man, but if you’re asking him “Do these jeans make me look fat” or nagging anytime an attractive woman talks to him, then you’re digging your own relationship grave.

The problem is that once your insecurities start to show there’s no going back. Instead of pushing him away with your self-doubts show him your happy-go-lucky side and he’ll be hooked.

A good tip to follow is to pretend that every date with your man is a first because there’s no way you’d let him see this side of you then

· Feeling unhappy when you are on your own.

Just because you’re happy when you’re with him it doesn’t mean that he isn’t catching on to your negativity when he’s not in the room. In fact, if he knows that he’s your sole source of happiness then it’s likely to push him away.

The problem here is this type of situation makes him feel pressured to keep you content, and that’s a huge responsibility for anyone! Instead of relying on him to keep you smiling, make the most of your life. Do the things that you love. When you do, you’ll not only be making yourself happier, but it’ll improve the overall quality of your relationship too.

WAYS OF SHOWING COMMITMENT TO YOUR MAN

When it comes to getting a man to commit, it's important to know where to start.

Since you can't force a relationship, it's key that he feels a desire to be with you. In other words, he needs to believe that his life is greater with you in it.

That said, you can't push or pressure him to be with you. If you do, he'll only pull away.

In order to kickstart a commitment with your man, try these tips on for size.

· Be decisive.

As much as guys like to be in control, they don't want to have to call the shots for you, too. Instead of counting on him to decide on your dinner plans or weigh in on your outfit options, do it yourself!

Men find indecisiveness draining, so if you want to keep him coming back for more it's crucial that you learn how to be independent and have options of your own.

· Do the little things.

As manly as he may seem, he still likes to be taken care of. To show your guy that life's better with you in it be the one who goes the extra mile to make him smile.

While it's one thing to tell him that you appreciate him, as the old saying goes, "actions speak louder than words." Something as simple as surprising him with a nice home-cooked meal or a case of his favourite beer can do wonders for your relationship.

· Keep living your own life.

It's tough not to get swept up in romance, but if you want to make you guy commit to you it's important that you have a life without him.

Sure, it may be great spending all of your free time with him, but if you push your life to the side for him he'll see how easily he has you.

On the other hand, if you make him work for your time by keeping busy with friends, family and other hobbies he'll not only want to see you more, but he'll even miss you when you're not around.

· Be willing to try new things.

Whether it's a foreign cuisine or a kinky sex position, being open and willing to try new things with your man is important, especially when it comes to getting him to commit.

Since most men are adventurous at heart, keeping your relationship exciting and new will prevent him from feeling bored or looking elsewhere for love.

· Be his rock.

When a man knows he can rely on you he'll feel a connection to you like no other. Thus, if you want him to commit to a relationship, you need to be the one he can count on.

To show him this it's important that you're a woman of your word. Meaning, if you say you're going to do something, do it. When he knows he can depend on you to follow through he'll feel secure with you.

It's also important that you have an open ear, and be the person he can talk to about anything and everything. When he does share his hopes and dreams with you encourage him to chase them. Never tell him that something is out of his reach, but rather be his biggest fan.

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