REVEALED: 5 Signs He Is The Right Man Or Guy For You
- FartMan
- Sep 18, 2021
- 6 min read
“You don’t love someone because of their looks or their clothes or their car. You love them because they sing a song only your heart can understand.” — L.J. Smith
Meet Tessa, a tech support specialist in Melbourne in her late twenties, who has an active social life. She often attends science fiction conventions, regularly hosts video game marathons in her home, and meets many like-minded people, including men. Tessa had been single for a while and was hoping to find a partner who could complement her personality. And although she had a lot in common with the guys in her social circles, she couldn’t get along romantically with any of them. So it was a total surprise when Ben walked past and wiped Tessa’s feet. “He’s super active on the local sports scene and he’s very athletic so he wasn’t my type at all … at least that’s what I thought,” Tessa shared with a girlish smile. They bumped into each other at a mutual friends charity auction, and they clicked the moment they met. “I couldn’t quite say at first, but I immediately knew it was different and in a good way,” she enthused. “He wasn’t like everyone else I have met and I don’t think it has anything to do with our interests. Ben has that energy and warmth that I absolutely love.”
How do you recognize he is the one for you Their worlds were pretty far apart, but that didn’t stop Tessa from falling in love with Ben. It’s surprising how perfectly couples who initially look like opposites fit together. And generally, it can be difficult to determine if a particular person is right for you. Given his unique personality and quirks — along with all the mixed signal activity — it’s hard to sift through all of this and see the signs he’s been waiting for you. How do you know he’s your Mr Right. Is that okay … or should you keep looking?
Read on to find out…
He’s surely deep into you with these signs
Below are the signs to look out for that tells he is just that man you’ve been craving for.
Sign 1: He is always behind you One thing that I have noticed about many couples who have been together for years is how much they support each other. It’s always a good sign when a guy keeps encouraging his partner to pursue their interests and passions — however “out” they may seem. Seeing your man always trying to move in a SANE direction — especially when you have self-doubts — is a clear indication that he is a good choice for you. When looking for a partner, it’s important to find someone who wants you to grow and develop. A guy who acts as a positive force in your life is worth staying.
Sign 2: He’s part of your world As Tessa learned, it doesn’t have much to do with how similar your personalities or interests are. Sure, deals make it easier to break the ice, but that won’t keep the relationship going in the long run. The most important factor is his willingness to be a part of your life anyway. Tessa fondly remembers, “Ben didn’t know about Star Wars or sci-fi movies in general, but he took me to the midnight screening of The Force Awakens with my geek friends … and we even wore sunglasses matching Jedi outfits. Although I didn’t ask him to do it, he suggested the idea and I liked him for it …
“If he likes you, he will take care of what you do. He will spend his time with them because he knows what these things mean to you. And that’s exactly what he wants to be — your fun and your life.
Sign 3: You share a special bond Do you know how some couples seem to almost know what the other is thinking without saying a word? It’s amazing — and a little scary — to see them connect on this level that no one else can. It’s not by chance or some other supernatural phenomenon — some people are empathetic that way and have some sort of radar. Your husband doesn’t have to be a psychological sense or a sixth sense, and you shouldn’t expect that either. But if he knows he’s at least asking you if you’re okay, that’s a sign of a worried — and CONNECTED — partner. He’s the type of guy who can sense and react to something wrong with your inner world. If he picks up your signals, he doesn’t just ask you if you’re okay … … he’ll also want to help you get out of your funk, get the proverbial fly out of your soup … … and do everything to make you love the rain again. And the fact that he cares about how you feel or think says a lot about the man he is.
Sign 4: He makes the effort If you are important to a man, he will always go the extra mile to make sure you are happy. Men place great importance on the feeling that their partner feels cared for and protected. Therefore, he will do it in any way he can. If he doesn’t plan with you and has great experiences together, he will try to help you with something that is bothering you, like fixing your smartphone or going shopping that you hate. A man worth loving is someone who will do whatever he can to give you relief and make your life easier. Another thing you might notice is the way a man does things to you on a regular basis. He’ll take you out for coffee in the morning, meet you with your dog every Saturday, or plan a monthly expedition to his favorite campsite. If he does, be careful because a guy doesn’t change his schedule that easily. Only a man who is in “single” mode will insist on keeping his dates as they are. A man in love, on the other hand, will suddenly have every reason in the world to make his schedule more flexible than a circus contortionist. Moreover, he would like to create a life with you. So it’s not just what he does, it’s also the moment when he gives up and moves on in the name of your happiness. It is one of the most precious gifts he can give to anyone.
Sign 5: He makes everything awesome Even the most boring things in everyday life look great when you’re around him. You might have to go to the store to buy pasta or pick up a package in the mail — but you wouldn’t miss it if he offered to accompany you. You are so drawn to each other that everything else seems to take a back seat when you are together. He wants to know everything you have planned for today and for you too. They are soul mates — he turns the mundane into a wizard just by being there. And when you are having the worst days you always want him to be there because you know he is a very positive presence in your life. He’s there to hear you complain about the crazy drama you’ve had with a coworker or some other fight you’re going through. Anyway, he is listening and does not want to find a solution to his problems. He sits down, listens quietly, and doesn’t speak until you are finished. He will only give his opinion if you ask and will always give you the impression that he is listening to you. All of this adds to the undeniable fact that you have found the Unique. Finding this type of connection with a man is RARE. So you have to be careful when he shows you the right signs.
More importantly, you need to make sure that spark keeps burning bright and strong with your Mr. Right. I have seen a lot of couples who were perfect for each other at the beginning stages but separated for some reason. Maybe he wasn’t as caring as he used to be any longer… … or the passion had vanished … … or it just follows the movements. Worse, it might even seem that he’s pulling away.
If you have a terrible feeling in the pit of your stomach that you can’t ignore any longer, then it’s time to know the REAL reasons Why Men Pull Away.
I’ve put together a video that explains exactly how to recapture your man’s heart before it’s TOO LATE:
You are gonna definitely make you man stick with you always
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